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Tuesday, November 29, 2011

let go.

It's because you love too much and your love is not felt and appreciated that you chose to let go, not because you stop loving but because what you're feeling is a mixture of love and hurt that is slowly killing you inside. You cry, not because you are sad but because you must cry, for it almost seems that pity is necessary before kindness is possible. If you love someone so much but both of you are unhappy, do you make that person stay or let that person go?

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  1. a very hard and confusing questions.realy depends on the individual,but for me its better to talk with that person,and sort things out patiently.

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  2. but what if there's a communication breakdown?

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  3. True.communication breakdown is norm in relationship. its about give and take that has to be practised from both sides. in this case its pretty depends on the person whether to accept the situation or not. talk over an issue for hours, if that person cant accept the situation that is going to discussed about have communication breakdown before the 'Talk ‘itself ,over time and it still ends in an uncomfortable stalemate, this communication breakdown will lead a couple to conclude that nothing can be resolved by talking together. consequently, this couple will slowly drift apart.

    stubbornness is what made it impossible and mostly lead to ‘CB’.CB could have been resolved if there had been a little more flexibility and compromise on both sides.if both were stubbornly defending their positions and were unwilling to see the other’s point of view,habisla!

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